OK this is just a vent.. I cant stand cheating spouses who cheat while there husbands are away... even more so i cant stand them nasty grimmy soldiers who take advantage of of the situations.. how could u do that to ur own battle buddies... just nasty nasty nasty... there is a NCO in my husbands unit that is sleeping with and is shacked up with another soldiers wife while he is away... I think all cheaters need to be exposed for the slime that they are... and that NCO does know she is a army wife because he is living here on base with her and is visiting while she works at AFFESS... 

I agree on that one awful i know we got a e5 in my hubbies unit that is doin that same tihing but i never taught a nco would my hubby is the black lions on post i forget the unit numbers he says would u be talkin about a sgt ragan 

^^^Whoa... 

win i respon on here does it work likeyahoo messenger 

"win i respon on here does it work likeyahoo messenger"

^^^ FTW!! 

There must be an epidemic... I stopped talking to one who I used to consider a friend but once I found out what she was doing our friendship stopped. I do not like to be associated with that type of behavior. This is really crazy... obviously they're not thinking of anyone but themselves. Really sad... 

Its horrible... I dont know if u all remember that tv series Over There.. I know it was only on for 1 season.. but i remember the wife cheating on her husband at there home and five mins later with her "lover" there she got a knock at the door and the uniformed soldiers told her her husband had died in combat.. I dont see how women could do that. how would u tell your children that... seriously women need to think with there head and not there chacha... 

Its funny someone brought this up... My husband totally told me to avoid the people who stayed back in his unit. He said even tho hes friendly with them and have had them over and what not, that they are the kind of people who would try to screw your wife while you are gone. Not that I need my husband to tell me these things, but I thought it was cute that he thought so highly of his "buddies". 

I agree on that one awful i know we got a e5 in my hubbies unit that is doin that same tihing but i never taught a nco would my hubby is the black lions on post i forget the unit numbers he says would u be talkin about a sgt ragan

WOW!!!! Could you possibly give out anymore information?! LOL!! 

Ooh I've met more cheating husbands than wives here (not saying that's the case more, just saying)! Every time I turn around my hubby is saying this guy, this guy, and so on (insert name where "this guy" is - his battle buddies) has done something. I'm like "wait, isn't he...well nvm". A neighbor of mine (only said "hi" to her one time not long after we moved in) husband passed away and I was walking about my door a few days later (after she got the news) and she and some guy were exchanging more than "words" in her doorway. I know that's not necessarily cheating, but very very sad to me! 

oh i know exactly what your talking about when it comes to cheating wives, i was friends with a girl who, ( the minute her husband left to iraq) was sleeping with her neighbor) and she has kids too.. pretty sad, daddy goes away and mommys got another daddy for us... thats cause her husband wasnt perfect but he was a great husband, she just thought it was her way or the highway and now thats where she will be living cause hes comming home soon and the neighbor only used her while he was gone.. she used all his deployment money on this guy. bought him nice clothes and everythin! ugghh i hate that, cause what would have happened if he would have gotten hurt over there? would you be able to live with the fact that he dies do you could sleep with other men? and confuse his kids?? idk ok im done ranting lol 

Lol, I am honestly glad that my husbands ex-wife did, I wouldnt have the most wonderful man in the world. Same for my brother he would not have my great sister-in-law if his fist wife was faithful. 

how about a nasty spouse selling herself to support a drug habit and everyone knows but the husband. also oh yeah her new boyfriend is a sex offender living in his house with his kids. yet no one can do anything about it to include the authorities after it was reported. 

??? Come again, gisnphil... 

yes, a 2 BDE soldiers wife, he is due back in a few days 

I believe being nasty and trying to support a drug habit at any means possible... I dunno why people are so dependent on that crap... get a life people. 

I agree on that one awful i know we got a e5 in my hubbies unit that is doin that same tihing but i never taught a nco would my hubby is the black lions on post i forget the unit numbers he says would u be talkin about a sgt ragan

WOW!!!! Could you possibly give out
anymore information?! LOL!! 

Really dude!

OH MY GAWD I JUST SPIT OUT MY SODA. LMAO 

There was a boy on my sons baseball team who's dad was deployed and mom always brought her young soldier boyfriend to everything with her. Made me so sick! Not only that but she would wear proud army wife shirts all the time. How in the hell can you where that when you are being little whore???? 

i LOOOOVVVVVEEE that i'm not the only chick on this post that feels that way. over the last 3 years i've lost a lot of friends when it came to deployments. Mainly bc they cheated & i couldn't sit back & watch or when the husband returned & they were all,....i love and missed you & kissing them & the whole 9 yards - i'm sitting there like, "f'n GROSS! if only he knew what she has been doing" THEN when the side comes out of not wanting to carry their dirty little secret i do front them out or give the spouse a heads up. in the end i'm usually called crazy, jealous, drama starter, etc or end up dropping the person as my friend all together as they talk their naive husband into believing that they would never do such things. Although i do give KUDOS to one wife for telling on herself BUT she only told part and left a few men out. AND there are a few hard core church goers that are always trying to recruit members to their church but then once the sun goes down their morals go out the window.

NOW i have decided to praise those who are loyal & faithful & stick to myself. it's beyond amazing and rare to me and i LOVE IT! *high five* :)


it saddens me to watch the spouses be so lovestruck & blind that they don't want to hear it or they don't care. most end up in a divorce as i sit back & say "i tried to tell you". - anyways, i became so sick of it that i made a website for them. - i can't say i've seen the nco's go for the wifees but all the pvt's have no fear.

sorry, this subject always gets me going. 

Wow this topic couldn't have came out at a better time. Because I now need to vent too. This is another perspective to it all. I am single and looking to meet a great guy, that special one that everyone is looking for and I cannot tell you how hard it is to be single out here and wanting to find a good man. I am not looking for someone elses husband but people are so dishonest these days that sometimes people truly do not know about the husband or wife and me personally I am sick of finding out later that the a guy I am talking to is married. Thankfully it has never went too far and lately I have been beginning to think it was me, having too many trust issues and I have openly admitted to having trust issues. But honestly, the issues I have with trust oddly enough I don't think is my fault anymore and the proof just goes to show.

The last few guys that I have seen (they just so happened to be military but other men I've found are the same, women too I'm sure) have in some way or another been attached but were dishonest about it. Had I known I would never have even went there. Guess I am old fashioned that way even though I have never been married I still want to believe marriage is a scared thing but it's hard to keep believing it when people take it for granted and treat it like it's nothing but a thing. I mean if you really aren't getting what you need from the marriage and aren't happy then get out of it. There is no reason to lie and hurt people inside and outside the marriage. It is not healthy for anyone and I am so tired of being the third wheel. It really leaves me distrustful of people and discouraged that I will ever meet a good person that if one did come across my way I would probaly scare him away because all my issues that I now have because of past experiences. As I get older I hope that it changes, but I can honestly say it doesn't. No mattter how young or older the other person it is, it seems like a never ending cycle. I just don't get it. Sorry for the long rant but of course I just found out a guy I was talking to was married. Of course I'm the "b*tich who needs to back off". He of course told me repeatedly he was not married or anything of the sort yet I get a message from his wife? Seriosuly? I should always trust my gut feelings cause they aren't hardly ever wrong. I give up on men. Sorry, rant over. 

mami2one... I am a military brat on from both my mom and dad... when i met me husband i made sure he showed me his erb

so just like the car fax commercial show me the carfax next time says show me the erb.. it shows if he is married, dependents, age, lol 

AND there are a few hard core church goers that are always trying to recruit members to their church but then once the sun goes down their morals go out the window.


lol I only laughed at this because I truely believe that going to church never makes a cheater a saint. Sorry, it gave me a chuckle...I've been cheated on, so yeah I tend to be cynical about this all and have trust issues. Both the wives and husbands around cheat..it's not military wife exclusive. Military wives just get talked about doing it more.

One of my fav quotes: Going to church does not make you a Christian anymore than going to a garage makes you an automobile.- Dr. Laurence J. Peter 

Wow this topic couldn't have came out at a better time.

That's what I was thinking. My good friend is FINALLY leaving her husband after she put up with his ways for way too long (yes it's the opposite side, but involves a cheating spouse). She hit her 'breaking point' and knows her child (and herself) deserve way better than that. 

Cheating should be illegal if u ask me.. this one chick i was talking about has 2 different facebooks I have noticed one is for her husband and one is for this other soldier. and yes missbliss the soldier i am talking about is PROBABLY the one u are talking about i noticed his name tape today when i was taking out the trash. Does he drive a silverish color expolorer with air assult and the Infantry Badge symbol on his back window and he is like 5'6ish...

I believe all cheaters should be exposed... they need a show Cheaters the military version lol 

I agree on that one awful i know we got a e5 in my hubbies unit that is doin that same tihing but i never taught a nco would my hubby is the black lions on post i forget the unit numbers he says would u be talkin about a sgt ragan

WOW!!!! Could you possibly give out
anymore information?! LOL!!

Really dude!

OH MY GAWD I JUST SPIT OUT MY SODA. LMAO

holly cow!! you have no idea how much this made me laugh! I literally laughed, my son looked at me like wt eff mama? lol. but if they're gonna get nasty with someone might as well put it on blast! 

so just like the car fax commercial show me the carfax next time says show me the erb.. it shows if he is married, dependents, age, lol

What's an erb? Yeah that sounds good but sadly enough these days you have to. Trust is so hard to come by. 

I believe all cheaters should be exposed... they need a show Cheaters the military version lol

I was thinking kinda the same thing but more like a local website. Like how they have for local sex offenders haha. Well it sounded good in my head anyway. 

I believe all cheaters should be exposed... they need a show Cheaters the military version lol


AGREE 100%. 

well crap i meant HOLY cow!