HAS ANYONE HAD A PROBLEM WITH THESE PEOPLE...
REASON 1:
MY HUSBAND COMMITED ADULTREY AND THEY HAD PICS AND EVERYTHING OF HIM AND ANOTHER ARMY WIFE TOGETHER, KISSING AND EVERYTHING... AND STILL NOTHING DONE
REASON 2:
HE FAILED TO GIVE ME MY SPOUSAL SUPPORT WHILE WE WAS SEPERATED AND STILL NOTHING DONE
REASON 3:
HE HAS THE OTHER ARMY WIFE LIVING WITH HIM AND SHE IS PREGNANT WITH HIS BABY
STILL NOTHING DONE
REASON 4:
HE SET UP MY CHILDSUPPORT ALLOTMENT TO A DIFFERENT ACCOUNT THAT WASNT MINE AND I PROVED IT... BUT YET STILL NOTHING DONE
REASON 5:
HE IS SUPPOSED TO BE PAYING THE CAR PAYMENT... HES NOT... BUT YET STILL NOTHING DONE...
REASON 6:
HE HASNT SEEN OUR CHILDREN IN OVER 4 MONTHS AND ADMITTS TO ME AND THE CHAIN OF COMMAND THAT THE ONLY TIME HE THINKS OF THEM IS WISHING THAT THEY WOULD DIE SO HE WOULDNT HAVE TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT... STILL NOTHING DONE...

I HAVE BEEN TO IG, JAG, AND ALL THE WAY UP TO SGM, 1SGT, LTC... WHERE SHOULD I GO... SERIOUSLY

AND MIND U THIS IS A NCO THAT IS DOING ALL THE ABOVE... SOMEONE WHO DISIPLINES HIS OWN SOLDIERS FOR THE FOLLOWING ACTS THAT HE IS COMMITTING... 

no offence but if you are having these issues you need to get a lawyer. Military can only do so much and this is an issue with a civ. lawyer not military (jag) 

I'd have to agree with militarybrat. Military can only do so much, so I wouldn't necessarily blame 1-28 D Co. One of our good friends is in D Co and there are things going on, just with his soldiers. He tries to help them (such as advice and personal probs) but he can only do so much...In my opinion it would be best to contact a civilian lawyer (like mb stated). 

Yeah, since you arent a soldier, a lawyer is who you should be dealing with. 

Since you have exhausted all military angles, I have to agree that you should get a lawyer. Yes, the Army has rules, but they are nothing without enforcement (which seems to be the case here). There are units that will slam a soldier for behavior of that sort, and there are others that will turn the other cheek (for a myriad of reasons).

I know that may be hurting right now, but it seems to me that you're more concerned about taking the military route because you want your husband to "get his". I'm not saying you don't have a right to be angry, but you have to focus on what is going to matter the most: making sure you and your children have a means to live.

What I would do--personally--is take revenge completely out of the picture and focus on what directly affects me: the non-payment of child support, the non-payment of spousal support, and not honoring the car payment. I know that getting a lawyer is costly, but remember that you can also sue him for court costs if you win. Take care of that first (with a civilian lawyer) and let the rest fall into place. Remember: if he did it to you, he will do it to her as well. I haven't seen too many instances where cheaters change their stripes.

Blessings to you. 

Have you filed for divorce already? 

O and also...

Not all the time but sometimes you can find lawyers who will help by setting up a payment plan. Instead of having to pay everything all at 1 time...

I'm terribly sorry you and your children are having to deal with this entire situation. I can not imagine how stressful this must be. I'm in the process of courts and lawyers getting supervised visiting set up, and eventually my ex's rights taken. So I know how mentally exhausting the legality of everything can be. Luckily and sadly he isn't military so... Im not having to deal with them.

But of course this is back in Arkansas but my lawyer there was really awesome about working with me. He started the process and I paid what I could to him weekly. 

thank u so much i got a lawyer today... 

and just some humor... i DID use a coupon lol 

Go to the IG on post they will help you 

mrscope is correct, if there is hardcore evidence that he is committing adultery by military standards IG will have CID investigate it. Be sure that is a route you want to take though, even though it sounds like your husband needs a swift kick to the pants if he is charged with adultery it could affect any child support or benefits your children would receive if he is dishonorably discharged ans sent to leavenworth for a year. Good luck with the attorney. Dealing with the civilian court will get you what you need. 

it sounds like she wants him to get in trouble. I say go to the MPs yourself 

Maybe I am mistaken, but I thought you stated that you were already divorced? 

I went back and reread some of your posts.... Your already divorced so how can she get him for adultry? 

Hers the only thing about going the military route.... He gets kicked out or looses rank... there goes some of that money. How is he going to pay you with no job etc? Plus ( I could be wrong on this) but if he make less money he can have the child support lowered. Do you really want that or the money that is rightfully yours? Just a thought. Id get a lawyer and fight like heck. I hope that this gets easier on you and you get what is owed to you! Good Luck! 

I would contact army times, that might get the point across. lol.